Tuesday, June 18, 2013


SUCCESS IS NOT EASY


"I was taught that the way of progress is neither swift nor easy."
-- Marie Curie, Physicist

TAKING RISKS - PT #2


"He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life."
-- Muhammad Ali, World Heavyweight Boxing Champion







SACRIFICE



"Gauge your success by what you gave up to achieve it."
-- Eden Hampson
SENSE OF HUMOR


"Keep your sense of humor. There's enough stress in the rest of your life to let bad shots ruin a game you're supposed to enjoy."
-- Amy Alcott, golfer

Monday, May 27, 2013


TAKING RISKS



"It is impossible to win the great prizes in life without running risks."
-- Theodore Roosevelt, 26th U.S. President

DAILY ROUTINE



It's not what you do once in a while; it's what you do day in and day out that makes the difference."
-- Jenny Craig, diet guru

Sunday, May 26, 2013


A LITTLE EXTRA



"Do a little more than you're paid to. Give a little more than you have to. Try a little harder than you want to. Aim a little higher than you think possible, and give a lot of thanks to God for health, family, and friends."
-- Art Linkletter

WE, NOT ME, WILL PREVAIL!



The following levels of team commitment comes an excellent book, "Championship Team Building" written by Jeff Janssen.

1. Resistant- player has not bought into the team goal, usually because he has his own agenda. The only reason the player may be working hard is for selfish reasons.

2. Reluctant- player is hesitant, disinterested or sometimes afraid to commit to the team goal. These are the players who usually do enough to get by when prodded, but cut corners when they thing they can get away with it.

3. Existent- team goal has little significance and the player is often participating for other reasons. These are the players who are on the team because their friends are or their parents want them to be. (This level occurs often in youth sports.)

4. Compliant- team goal is important and the player will do what is asked to achieve the team goal. This player understands and agrees with the team goal and will abide by the team standards to achieve it. They will do what is asked of them and usually no more or no less.

5. Committed- team goal is of high importance and the player is willing to do whatever is necessary to achieve it. These are the players who put in the extra time and energy necessary to help the team succeed.

6. Compelled- team goal is of utmost importance and the player is totally invested in making it a reality. These are the players who feel a true sense of mission and purpose in what they are doing. They seek to and enjoy putting in extra time because they view it as an important investment in achieving the team’s mission.

A WINNING CULTURE



 "Winning is not a sometime thing; it's an all time thing. You don't win once in a while, you don't do things right once in a while, you do them right all the time. Winning is habit." 

- - Vince Lombardi, Hall of Fame Football Coach


Championship teams find a way to transform themselves into winners. No doubt, there needs to be talent, but there also needs to be a winning culture. Cultures are created outside individual abilities. In sports, the creation of a culture starts by the way the team prepares in practice. It is impacted by the way the team interacts with one another. It is solidified by the way the team conducts itself whether in competition or in the community, as well as the positive attitude every member of the team carries with him at all times -- during moments when things are going well and during those times when it would be easy to complain or blame.

Strong on and off the court leadership is going to be key for this team's success. You and your staff should work hard to ensure everyone is on board for what is required to achieve championship results in the upcoming season(s). Your team(s) may have plenty of young talent, but they need to mesh together (everyone) to create a winning culture that will take you all through a long, challenging season.

Selflessness, intensity and passion are common attributes of all championship teams. Leadership is needed at every turn to ensure these traits remain constant throughout a long season.

RESOLVE 



"Determination gives you the resolve to keep going in spite of the roadblocks 
that lay before you..."

- Dennis Whitley, Speaker and Author

FAMILY MOMENTS



"What will your children remember? Moments spent listening, talking, playing and sharing together may be the most important times of all."
-- Gloria Gaither

NOTHING OR NO ONE STOPS YOU BUT YOU




"The path of least resistance is the path of the loser. "
-- H.G. Wells, author

In the movie "A league of the Own," Jimmy Dugan (played by Tom Hanks) had a heated discussion with his star player Dottie Hinson (played by Geena Davis) about quitting the baseball team, and her decision to move back to Oregon in the middle of the playoffs.  Towards the end of the discussion,  Hinson said, "It (playing Baseball) just got too hard."  Dugan's reply, "Its suppose to be hard... If it wasn't hard, then everyone would do it...  The HARD is what makes it (Baseball) Great!"  
In life adversity strikes us all.  If we look for and take the easy way out, then we'll never truly experience long-term success and satisfaction because we are (in essence) running from the challenges.  Whether you are an athlete, coach, lawyer, teacher, doctor, tax accountant, etc. you have a challenge(s), and those challenges are place in front of you to test you (and help you grow).  So, face them... Meet them with confidence, overcome them, and press forward.  Never run from them again!  All the successful people you know and/ or have heard of did not do it and prevailed...  So why should you?

 PLAYING TO WIN IN CONNECTION TO HAVING FUN




In the pursuit of victory, there are times when we as competitors lose sight of the origin of why we began playing the game(s) we play, and that is we love and enjoy playing the game(s) we play.  As a result, these competitors fall short of winning.  If we as competitors take a step back and reflect on this, as well as letting go of that "win at all cost" approach, we can enjoy the experience more while pursuing victory.  This applies to coaches, players, and parents!!!

When we talk about playing on a team (or working with others) the same principle applies.  Your teammates will not enjoy being around you if you are all about winning because you are not a joy to be around.  You want things to be perfect (which they are not), wants to be your way and your way only, and eventually distance and dissension will shine.  So, go the opposite route.  Relax, enjoy the moment, do your best, and don't worry about the end result.  By doing this, you will perform better, be a better teammate, and have a good/ memorable experience.  

NEVER SETTLE - STRIVE FOR MORE 




"I don't think that once you get to one level, you can relax. 
You've got to keep pushing. "
-- Larry Bird, basketball player
REAL GRIT



"True grit is making a decision and standing by it, doing what must be done."
-- John Wayne

REST

"It is a common experience that a problem difficult at night is resolved in the morning after the committee of sleep has worked on it."
-- John Steinbeck, Author
Our bodies, as well as our minds, need to rest.  Studies have shown that a good amount a sleep does wonders for both the body and the brain.  Never neglect the importance of rest, no matter how hard you are working towards achieving a goal.  At the same token, don't indulge in it too much as you won't achieve what you are striving.  

Sunday, January 27, 2013


TEAMWORK



“The most DIFFICULT thing for individuals to
do when they become part of a team is to sacrifice,
it is much EASIER to be selfish”
--Coach Pat Riley


DISCIPLINE


"The truth of the matter is that you always know the right thing to do. 
The hard part is doing it." 
-- General H. Norman Schwarzkopf

WHAT SETS DISCIPLINED 

PEOPLE APART?


1) The capacity to get past distractions.

There are players who get thrown by less than optimal conditions; 
they need perfect weather, a perfect playing surface, perfect health. 
There are other players who can’t be distracted. They can play on grass, turf, 
or the parking-lot blacktop —the only thing they focus on is the competition.

2) The willingness to condition the mind and body for the task at hand.

After a leader supplies the needed direction and knowledge base,
it comes down to that old cliché:

- Who wants it more?

- Which side is prepared to push itself forward and seize the day?


3) The ability to keep your poise when those around you are losing theirs.

Mature players will absorb these excesses in stride, even when 
they’re out-and-out flagrant. I tell my players to put their emotions on hold,
to stone-face their opponents. Once the opposition knows what you’re 
thinking, it gains an advantage.


From "Finding A Way To Win" by Bill Parcells

LIFE'S REAL WINNERS



"The real winners in life are the people who look at every situation with an expectation that they can make it work or make it better."
-- Barbara Pletcher, author