PLAYING TO WIN IN CONNECTION TO HAVING FUN
In the pursuit of victory, there are times when we as competitors lose sight of the origin of why we began playing the game(s) we play, and that is we love and enjoy playing the game(s) we play. As a result, these competitors fall short of winning. If we as competitors take a step back and reflect on this, as well as letting go of that "win at all cost" approach, we can enjoy the experience more while pursuing victory. This applies to coaches, players, and parents!!!
When we talk about playing on a team (or working with others) the same principle applies. Your teammates will not enjoy being around you if you are all about winning because you are not a joy to be around. You want things to be perfect (which they are not), wants to be your way and your way only, and eventually distance and dissension will shine. So, go the opposite route. Relax, enjoy the moment, do your best, and don't worry about the end result. By doing this, you will perform better, be a better teammate, and have a good/ memorable experience.
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