1. Good mood.
Clearly everyone feels good about winning, while emotions
sag at failure. Emotions affect performance.
Positive moods produce physical energy and the resilience
to persist after setbacks.
While losers use any excuse to stop, winners sometimes play on
even while injured, lifted by a kind of winners' high.
Moreover, psychologists find that moods are contagious.
Winners' exhilaration is infectious. Losers' gloom can be toxic.
2. Attractive situation.
Whether at children's soccer games or in the office,
losers go home early.
Winners stick around.
My studies show that there is less absenteeism or
tardiness in organizations known for their successes.
There is also more solidarity, because people spend more time
together feeling good about what they can accomplish.
More time together brings more chances for information-sharing
and mentoring.
3. Learning.
Losers get defensive and don't want to hear about their many failings,
so they avoid feedback.
Winners are more likely to voluntarily discuss mistakes and accept
negative feedback, because they are comfortable that they can win.
Because they are confident about the possibility of winning, they see
practicing as a route to a positive outcome, not as a punishment.
For athletes, practice matters. Winning is often found in mastery of the
details. As a former student found in studies of swimmers who did and
didn't qualify for the Olympics, excellence consists of examining and
improving many small processes and routines.
4. Freedom to focus.
As every golfer and tennis player knows,
you must keep your eye on the ball.
Losers often punish themselves in their heads.
Winners have fewer distractions. Golf pro Tiger Woods won nearly
every championship until hit with personal problems of his own making,
which was followed by loses on the golf course.
5. Positive culture of mutual respect.
For anyone who plays on a team,
winning makes it easier to respect and listen to one another, because
after all, if you win together, then the presumption is that everyone is a
good player. Winners can maintain high aspirations and act generously
toward others. Losers are more likely to blame others and disdain them
as mediocre, creating a culture of finger-pointing and infighting.
6. Solid support system.
Behind every high performance athlete or
team is a cadre of coaches, friends, and fans that fuel motivation.
Winning enlarges the circle of backers. Losing erodes support.
For instance, the cheerleaders for one perpetually losing
college football team to leave the stadium at half-time.
When even their cheerleaders feel they won't win,
how can athletes gear up for the next try?
7. Better press.
It's not just the buzz at time of victory that
separates winners from losers, it's also the more favorable
story about the past and future.
Winning provides a halo that makes everything seem to glow.
Losing causes observers and analysts to probe for reasons in
a rewritten version of the past that makes continuing losses
seem inevitable.
8. Invitations to the best parties.
Really. Winners get invited to the White House,
Buckingham Palace, key conferences or exhibitions.
They gain access to networks and relationships
that confer benefits that maintain winners' momentum,
such as early information or better deals.
Who invites the losers?
9. Self-determination.
Winners have more control over their own destiny.
"Why tamper with success?" we often say. Winners are left alone,
getting a free pass on reviews (occasionally tragically, as at Penn State,
where locker room abuse went uninvestigated).
Losers get attention of the negative kind.
They are encumbered with "help" — special committees, audits,
reviews, frequent visitors.
Enough of that, and losers spend their time in meetings instead of
practicing and improving performance.
10. Continuity.
Lose too often, and heads roll.
New coaches, new strategies — like HP's lurching between
hardware and software or Yahoo's parade of exiting CEOs.
High turnover consumes time and attention.
More time spent getting people on board leaves little time to
fully execute any particular game plan.
It's hard to start winning again until the situation stabilizes.
Winners have the luxury implementing long-term strategies
and planning for orderly succession.
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